Virtual meetup for dads

Just us dads. Every two months.

Casual, from home – with a drink in hand and a little starter from last time. Every 3rd Thursday in even months, 8:30–10:00 pm.

Father laughing and lifting his child into the air

Why t21dads?

An evening that feels like being among friends

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Fixed slot

Every 3rd Thursday in even months.

February, April, June, August, October, December – 8:30 to 10:00 pm, once the kids are in bed. We finish on time, so the evening stays easy to plan.

Two languages

German and English taking turns.

The German circle meets in odd months, the English one in even months. So dads who speak little German (so far) have a place at the table too.

Virtual & casual

From the sofa, with a drink.

No travel, no babysitter. Camera on or off, talk or listen – you decide how much you share.

How it works

No talks. No agenda. Lean Coffee.

We set the topics together: we collect them anonymously, vote, and talk about whatever matters most to the group right now.

  1. Hello & starter

    A quick round: who you are and how you’re doing. Then the starter from last time breaks the ice.

  2. Lean Coffee

    Suggest, vote, discuss: topics go anonymously on the digital board, everyone votes, we talk through the top ones.

  3. Next starter

    To close, we choose the starter for the meetup after next together.

Our circle

What’s said at the table stays at the table.

  • Confidential

    Nothing shared in the circle leaves it – no names, no stories, no screenshots.

  • Experience, not advice

    Everyone shares what worked for them. Nobody has to take anything on.

  • Respectful language

    Our kids are kids first. We talk about them the way we’d want others to.

  • Listening counts too

    If you just want to listen, you’re every bit as much part of the circle.

Laughing girl with Down syndrome hugging an adult
“A child first.”